RANDOM THOUGHTS (some mine, some others')
1. I am unique. There is no one else like me in the entire universe. I acknowledge and embrace the special qualities that make me the person that I am. Therefore I do not compare myself with other people.
2. My best hour is early in the morning when on waking at dawn I step on my roof. As I sit down to drink a glass of water, nearby I see roofs; further - a sprinkling of trees; beyond - a ridged hilltop perched on which I visualize a meditating Shiva that is actually attached by a binding wire to the top bar of the roof fence; then – sky with daily new slow-moving mosaic of clouds. I feel the gentle, pulsing waves of silence and allow it to cleanse me. I meditate for ten minutes and find bliss within my soul.
3. I consider that caring for myself is no more selfish or self-centered than caring for the important people in my life. My willingness to see to my own needs facilitates my ability to ensure the well-being of others.
4. Here's what I tell anybody and this is what I believe. The greatest gift we have is the gift of life. We understand that. That comes from our Creator. We're given a body. Now you may not like it, but you can maximize that body the best it can be maximized.
5. Only the present moment exists. That is where life is (indeed it is the only place life can truly be found). Becoming aware of the ‘now’ has the added benefit that it will draw your attention away from your (negative) thoughts. Use mindfulness techniques to fully appreciate your surroundings and everything you are experiencing. Look and listen intently. Give full attention to the smallest details.
6. I ensure that most of my interpersonal interaction takes place on a plane of sincerity by making the choice to trust others until they give me some cause to question their integrity.
7. Going on a trip always adds much pleasure and excitement to my life – be it to my Gym, Bridge Club, a cricket match, homes of my daughters or friends; or traveling abroad.
8. Critically pondering the new ideas that I come across from books, internet or conversations enable me to draw new conclusions about the world around me and my place in it even at this age when I am in my seventies.
9. By instinct, I prefer some things - and some people – over others. And, sadly, what I do not prefer I avoid.
10. My life is interesting because I never had a quest for perfection and have rather aspired to do what was acceptable to my conscience.
11. The only person of whom I feel a little envious is George Santana, Spanish philosopher of 20th Century. He spent the entire World War II in Rome and when the liberating American soldiers asked him how he made out during the war, he replied: “I have no idea – I was living in eternity”.
12. We ensure that wisdom can flow freely into our private and professional lives when we are willing to pose the many questions that linger continuously in the forefront of our minds. While we may hesitate to articulate this burning curiosity because we fear our peers will deem us ignorant or green, we can fill in the gaps in our intellectual experience only when we are forthright about voicing our many inquiries.
13. We often remain entirely skeptical of advice or knowledge we have been given until we are afforded an opportunity to put it into practice in our own lives, in our own way. This is because it is only when we see for ourselves that we can truly grasp the significance of certain forms of experiential wisdom. Consequently, we should endeavor never to reject any advice from a reputable source without first considering how we can test it in a real-life situation.
14. The fear that others will perceive you as unintelligent can further influence your behavior, causing you to consciously avoid speaking your mind or asking questions.
15. "Somebody once said we never know what is enough until we know what's more than enough."
16. "We can learn a lot from trees: they're always grounded but never stop reaching heavenward."
17. "To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong."
18. Weaving the thread of kindness into your everyday life can be as easy as choosing to offer a hearty “Good morning” and “Good night” to your coworkers or neighbors, a stranger on the street, or the grocery store clerk. When you commit a kind act, you are momentarily disconnected from your ego and bonded with the individual who has benefited from your kindness. Being fully present in each moment of your life facilitates kindness as it increases your awareness of the people around you. You’ll discover that each act of kindness you engage in makes the world, in some small way, a better place.
19. The sun also reminds us that our own shining truth is never extinguished. Our light shines within us at all times, no matter what else occurs around us. Though the sun gives us daily proof of its existence, sometimes our belief in our own light requires more time. If we think back, however, we can find moments when it showed itself and trust that we will see it again. Like the sun, our light is the energy that connects us to the movements of the universe and the cycles of life and is present at all times, whether we feel its glow or not.
20. Should you find yourself beset by annoyances, however, try to remember that you can choose whether you will carry them with you after the fact. No tragedy will befall you if you decide you would rather be happy than sad. Let go of any residual pain still within you
21. "It is the responsibility of every adult to make sure that children hear what we have learned from the lessons of life and to hear over and over that we love them."
22. "The fishermen know that the sea is dangerous and the storm terrible, but they have never found these dangers sufficient reason for remaining ashore."
23. What is the current that makes machinery, that makes it crackle, what is the current that presents a long line and a necessary waste. What is the wind, what is it. 24. "It is one of my sources of happiness never to desire knowledge of other people's business."
25. When we take a realistic view of the virtues and faults of humanity as a whole, we can accept that people make mistakes without lingering over the disheartenment we naturally feel. Ultimately, we understand that the people who are a part of our lives, however much we love or revere these individuals, are on journeys similar to our own and prone to blunders. When you learn to both appreciate others’ humanity and forgive their errors today, your expectations regarding their conduct will be levelheaded and reasonable
26. "When nothing seems to help, I go and look at a stonecutter hammering away at his rock, perhaps a hundred times without as much as a crack showing in it. Yet at the hundred and first blow it will split in two, and I know it was not that last blow that did it, but all that had gone before."
27. Silent discord is understood rather than seen;
28. Since your experiences won’t be similar to others’ and your behavior will be shaped by those experiences, you may never stop reacting strongly to the challenging situations you encounter. Even if you are able to do nothing more than acknowledge what you are feeling and that there is little you can do to affect your current circumstances, in time you’ll alter your reaction to such circumstances. You can learn gradually to let negative thoughts come into your mind, recognize them, and then let them go. You may never reach a place of perfect peace, but you’ll find serenity in having done your best.
28. "I attribute my success to this - I never gave or took any excuse."
29. "A lot of people like to do certain things, but they're not that good at it. Keep going through the things that you like to do, until you find something that you actually seem to be extremely good at. It can be anything."
30. "It is infinitely more exciting to live a life of catastrophic failures than a life of could-haves, should-haves and would-haves."
31. "You are what you
repeatedly do. Excellence is not an event -- it is a habit."
32."Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you will help
them become what they are capable of becoming."-- J.W Von Goethe
33,"You have to start by changing the story you tell yourself about getting older... The minute you say to yourself, 'Time is everything, and I'm going to make sure that time is used the way I dream it should be used,' then you've got a whole different story."
34. "The grand essentials of happiness are: something to do, something to love, and something to hope for."
35. It is today that we fit ourselves for the
greater usefulness of tomorrow. Today is
the seed time, now are the hours of work, and tomorrow comes the harvest and
the playtime.
36. "Real beauty isn't about symmetry or weight or makeup; it's about looking life right in the face and seeing all its magnificence reflected in your own."
37. Square your shoulders to the world, be not the kind to quit. It's not the load that weighs you down but the way you carry it.
38. "It is books that are the key to the wide world; if you can't do anything else, read all that you can."
39. "Age does not diminish the extreme disappointment of having a scoop of ice cream fall from the cone."
40. "There are generations yet unborn, whose very lives will be shifted and shaped by the moves you make and the actions you take." Andy Andrews
41. "The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. The fears are paper tigers. You can do anything you decide to do. You can act to change and control your life; and the procedure, the process is its own reward."
42. "If you haven't any charity in your heart, you have
the worst kind of heart trouble."
Bob Hope
43. "Knowledge and timber shouldn't be much used till they are seasoned." Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr.
44. "Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be, the last of life, for which the first was made." Robert Browning'wanting.' It is not logical, but it is often true."
45. "Aim for success, not perfection. Never give up your right to be wrong, because then you will lose the ability to learn new things and move forward with your life. Remember that fear always lurks behind perfectionism. Confronting your fears and allowing yourself the right to be human can, paradoxically, make yourself a happier and more productive person."-- Dr. David M. Burns
46. "We should be careful to get out of an experience
only the wisdom that is in it -- and stop there; lest we be like the cat that
sits down on a hot stove lid. She will never sit down
on a hot stove lid again -- and that is well; but also she will never sit down
on a cold one anymore." -- Mark Twain
47. "The measure of a man's real character is what he would do if he knew he never would be found out." – Macaulay
48. "Wisdom consists not so much in knowing what to do in the ultimate as knowing what to do next." -- Herbert Hoover
49. "No matter how busy you may think you are, you must find time for reading, or surrender yourself to self-chosen ignorance." – Confucius
50. "You are the same today as you'll be in five years except for two things, the books you read and the people you meet
51. "There is only one way to happiness, and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will." – Epictetus
52. The older I get, the more Hindu I become. V.S. Naipaul, Trinidadian novelist.
53. "Humor is the great thing, the saving thing. The minute it crops up, all our irritations and resentments slip away and a sunny spirit takes their place."-- Mark Twain
54. "Be content with what you have, rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you." -- Lao Tzu
55. "You can do so much in 10 minutes' time. Ten minutes, once gone, are gone for good. Divide your life into 10-minute units and sacrifice as few of them as possible in meaningless activity." -- Ingvar Kamprad, Founder of IKEA
56. "Perseverance is a great element of success. If you only knock long enough and loud enough at the gate, you are sure to wake up somebody." -- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
57. "We must let go of the life we planned, so as to
accept the one that is waiting for us."
-- Joseph Campbell
58. "Who is richer? The man who is seen, but cannot see? Or the man who is not being seen, but can see?"-- Babe Ruth
59. "The most pathetic person in the world is someone
who has sight but has no vision."
-- Helen Keller
60. One of the most beautiful
lessons of Bhagwan Krishnas life is: never lose yourself due to external
circumstances, never lose your smile, never lose your song Bhagwan Krishnas
life was full of trials and tribulations, beginning on the day when He took
birth in a locked jail cell and ending in the jungle shot by a hunters arrow.
However, throughout it all through the innumerable challenges wrought upon Him
He always maintained His divine smile. He always played His divine flute. Even
after His physical flute was left with Radhaji, the song of Krishnas
flute was always on, wherever He went. The song emanated from His very being.
He never once said, Im in a bad mood today so I will not play my flute. No.
Regardless of what the external world brought and wrought, the Song was on.
This is a beautiful message for our own lives. Wherever He went, wherever He
was, He was always blissful, always joyful, always shining His divine light
upon others. When our hearts are full of God, then we live constantly in the
most beautiful
61. An old saying asks one never to go where one gets too much respect. This is because getting too much attention is a sure recipe for developing a temperament accustomed to throwing tantrums at the slightest perceived disrespect. Therefore, one should never cultivate the habit of receiving too much respect or honor.
62. "No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite." -- Nelson Mandela
63."Every job is a self-portrait of the person who did it. Autograph your work with excellence." – Unknown
64. The Bhagavad Gita explains, "As a blazing fire reduces the wood to ashes, O Arjuna, so does the fire of knowledge reduce all activity to ashes. There is nothing on earth which possesses such power to cleanse as wisdom. The perfect yogin finds this knowledge in himself by himself in due time."
65. Seek the Infinite, for that alone is Joy unlimited, imperishable, unfailing, self-sustaining, unconditioned, timeless. When you have this joy, human life becomes a paradise; the light, the grace, the power, the perfections of that which is highest in your inner consciousness, appear in your everyday life.
66. You may be someone who understands the true nature of reality, perceiving deeply that we all emanate from the same source, that we are all essentially one, and that we are here on earth to love one another. To understand this is to be awakened to the true nature of the self, and it is a blessing.
67. Again and again, the impossible problem is solved when we see that the problem is only a tough decision waiting to be made." -- Robert H. Schuller
68. The mind is like milk. If you keep the mind in the world, which is like water, then the milk and water will get mixed. That is why people keep milk in a quiet place and let it set into curd, and then churn butter from it. Then that butter can easily be kept in the water. The mind will float detached on the water of the world. Sri Ramakrishna Paramhansa
69. The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, not to worry about the future, not to anticipate troubles, but to live the present moment wisely and earnestly. Siddhartha Gautama (ca 566-486 bce)
70. "The one comfort is like that prayer, which I always liked: 'Forgive me not according to my unworthiness, but according to Thy lovingkindness.' Tolstoy ‘AK’
71. "Where the needle goes there goes the thread also."
72. But women, my boy, they're the pivot everything turns upon.
73. In short, there are two kinds of Hindus--a majority who worship in the temples without a philosophical background and those who do have such a background and take part in their religion, discussion of the higher knowledge and meditation upon it, feeling no need for the Gods or for temple worship. The Panchakshara Mantra, Aum Namah Sivaya, the center of the Vedas, is the link between the two, between Siddhanta and Vedanta, because it makes the mind realize what it knows. Every Siddhantin knows a little about Vedanta and disregards it. And every Vedantin knows a bit about Siddhanta and disregards it. Through chanting Aum Namah Sivaya, finally you will realize what you know, including what you previously disregarded, and that blends the two--makes the whole person. The purusha becomes satisfied living in the physical body. The jiva becomes Siva.
74. In working through challenges, it can be helpful to first empty all
worries from our heads onto the safe pages of our journal. Fears can be brought
to light rather than allowing them to haunt the dark corners of our
subconscious. We may even feel heaviness dissipate once our heads are free from
clutter, leaving space for inspiration and the creation of positive images in
their place. Often in the process of writing out all the details of an event
that troubles us, something that had been forgotten will come to the surface,
providing a missing piece of the puzzle. Then we can truly begin to come up
with answers, and write them down beside the worries to map the way from
concern to constructive thought.
For capturing guidance and flashes of inspiration, journaling is ideal. This is
especially true in the case of dreams, which often fade as we awaken. While
working toward goals, keeping track of progress as well as guidance from
readings or divination tools can be encouraging. Though it can be difficult to
keep all of our guidance in the front of our minds, if we write it down it can
serve as a reminder whenever we need it. We can also use our journals to
converse with our higher selves or even the universe. Journaling offers yet
another way to unburden mind and spirit, while also creating a record of the
present and preserving our hopes and dreams for the future.
75. No one can
think a thought for me in the way that no one can don my hat for me.
(1929) Wittgenstein. Telling someone
something he does not understand is pointless, even if you add that he will not
be able to understand it.
76. "Whatever acts a good or bad man may do, the fruits thereof follow him and will never stop pursuing him." -- Sri Sai Baba
77. Whenever you have the chance, laugh as much as you can. By this all the rigid knots in your body will be loosened. But to laugh superficially is not enough; your whole being must be united in laughter, both inwardly and outwardly. Do you know how this is to be expressed? You literally shake with merriment from head to foot; so that it is impossible to tell which part of your body is most affected. I want you to laugh with your whole countenance, with your whole heart and with all the breath of your life. Anandamayi–Her Life and Wisdom by Richard Lannoy
78. "It isn't sufficient just to want - you've got to ask yourself what you are going to do to get the things you want." -- Franklin D. Roosevelt
79."Thunder is good, thunder is impressive; but it is lightning that does the work."Twain
80. "A
strong positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug."
-- Patricia Neal
81. As long as we are in touch with our higher selves, our egos are not a threat. They are simply useful tools in the service of spirit. We keep our egos in check when we continually nurture our awareness of who we really are. Then our egos are free to serve without trying ineffectually to rule. It is healthy to have ego, but like all things in life, ego functions best when it is in balance and harmony with your whole self.
82.
"Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an
understanding of urselves."
-- Carl Jung
83. "Carpe diem! Rejoice while you are alive; enjoy the day; live life to the fullest; make the most of what you have. It is later than you think." -- Horace
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84. "Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice." -- Wayne Dyer
85. Every child comes with the message that God is
not yet discouraged of man.
Rabindranath Tagore
86. "The future may be made up of
many factors but where it truly lies is in the hearts and minds of men. Your
dedication should not be confined for your own gain, but unleashes your passion
for our beloved country as well as for the integrity and
humanity of mankind." -- Li Ka Shing
87. Children, love can accomplish anything and everything. Love can cure diseases. Love can heal wounded hearts and transform human minds. Mata Amritanandamayi Ma, or Ammachi.
88. To hear of the Self is a great blessing, indeed, but to desire to realize the Self means that in this and your past lives you have gone through all of the experiences that this Earth consciousness has to offer. You have died all of the deaths and had all of the emotional experiences. You have had the good of the world and the bad of the world, and the mixed good and bad of the world through all of your many lives before you come to the life where you say, "I want to realize the Self in this life." Now you begin to tie up all the loose ends of past experiences that have not been fulfilled or resolved, because those loose ends are what bring you back to birth.
89. "The trick is in what one emphasizes. We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same." -- Carlos Castaneda
90. John F. Kennedy loved a little proverb he thought was Irish, but actually came from the Indian epic Ramayana: There are three things which are real–God, human folly and laughter. The first two are beyond our comprehension, so we must do what we can with the third.
91. Siva's ardent souls grow old gracefully, without fear, knowing that the soul is immortal and the mental body does not age, but becomes stronger and more mature, as do the emotions, if regulated stage by stage. Aum.
92. As the bee takes the essence of a flower and flies away without destroying its beauty and perfume, so let the sage wander in this life.
93. Make the mind always remain poised, like a hummingbird over a flower, so that you begin to live in the eternal now constantly, permanently. Satguru Sivaya Subramuniyaswami (1927-2001)
94. Knowing that the soul is deathless, Siva's devotees never suffer undue or prolonged sorrow for the departed, lest they bind these souls to Earth. They rejoice in the continuing journey of loved ones.
95. The Vedic edict is: "Ahimsa is not causing pain to any living being at any time through the actions of one's mind, speech or body."
96. As the dawn breaks on a New Year, let us give thanks for all we hold dear: Our health, our family, our friends, the grace of God which never ends. Let us release our grudges, anger and pains, for these are nothing but binding chains. Let us vow to live each day in the most pious, God-conscious way. Let us vow to serve all who are in need, regardless of race, caste, gender or creed. Let us vow to keep God in our heart, to chant His name each day at the start.
97. If one wants to abide in the thought-free state, a struggle is inevitable. One must fight one’s way through before regaining one’s original primal state. If one succeeds in the fight and reaches the goal, the enemy, namely the thoughts, will all subside in the Self and disappear entirely. Ramana Maharishi
98. "Anything that we have to learn to do we learn by the actual doing of it... We become just by doing just acts, temperate by doing temperate ones, brave by doing brave ones."
99. "Envy consists in seeing things never
in themselves, but only in their relations. If you desire glory, you may envy
Napoleon, but Napoleon envied Caesar, Caesar envied Alexander, and Alexander, I
daresay, envied Hercules, who never existed."
-- Bertrand Russell
100. An ancient Upanishad defines twenty obstacles, upasarga, to spiritual progress: hunger, thirst, laziness, passion, lust, fear, shame, anxiety, excitement, adversity, sorrow, despair, anger, arrogance, delusion, greed, stinginess, ambitiousness, death and birth. Another obstacle is the intellect which, unguided by intuition, merely juggles memory and reason as a way of life. The experience of these impediments creates reactions that combine with the sum of all past impressions, samskaras, both positive and negative. Residing in the subconscious mind, these are the source of subliminal traits or tendencies, called vasanas, which shape our attitudes and motivations. The troublesome vasanas clouding the mind must be reconciled and released. There are beneficial tantras by which absolution can be attained for unhindered living, including ayurveda, jyotisha, daily sadhana, temple worship, selfless giving, the creative arts and the several yogas. The Vedas explain, "Even as a mirror covered with dust shines brightly when cleaned, so the embodied soul, seeing the truth of atman, realizes oneness, attains the goal of life and becomes free from sorrow."
101. "There are those who work all day. Those who dream all day. And those who spend an hour dreaming before setting to work to fulfill those dreams. Go into the third category because there's virtually no competition." -- Steven J Ross
102. Our lives are definitely able to touch those of other people, and it's possible for us to contribute to the peace and compassion of the coming years by helping others to realize their hopes and dreams and goals, and to help their self-esteem through teaching and encouraging.
103. After receiving grace of a God, the devotee can never be the
same again, never look at life again in the old way. By grace we are directed
deeper into spiritual life, pointed in the right direction, carefully guided on
the San Marga, the straight path to our supreme God. After grace has been
received, our thoughts are enlivened, our life is inspired with enthusiasm and
energy, and we live daily in the joyous knowledge that everything is all right,
everything is happening around us in accord with our karma, our dharma and
God’s gracious will.
Satguru Sivaya Subramuniyaswami
104. "We are like tea bags -- we
don't know our own strength until e're in hot water."
-- Sister Busche
105. "Once the game is over, the king and
the pawn go back in the same box."
-- Anonymous
106. I am divine love in expression. I make a sacred connection with others. Love is the glue that binds my relationships and evokes reverence and mutual appreciation.
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